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Yes, I CAN believe it
what can you believe Ivan Chew?
That Cindy would ask that question – being genuine and getting in front of any potential communication differences
With a trusted partner, if you’re open and GENUINE, you have to put aside any ego and communicate about anything.
Regardless, in the self there is growth. In a partnership, there is growth as well – but you decide to either grow together or grow apart
(I don’t like Ronny Chieng… I get compared to him too much) 😛
Ivan Chew you should hang out with him
Anfernee Chansamooth – can I suggest WHY instead of WHAT? The Why tends to dictate the thought process without being able to pick it apart
If it’s a what, then it’s easier to distance it from the person
Same direction: chat about goals in life. how we’re going at this stage. what’s on our minds. but then verbalise what each of us think can do better – that’s ourselves, not the other person. The other person would either agree of disagree or tweak
communication in this instance is very important …
I got all hugs
Deep conversations and creating a space for it
Asian: “come here! Study hard or I whack you cane, ah! I spank you because I love you. I want you to succeed!”
I use “appreciation languages” at work
What are both of yours TOP ranked 3 love languages, guys?
sad how that looks… and definitely not allowed here –
Acts of Services sucks for lazy partners 😛
MAKE her some chocolates
(then you eat it) 😉
is that for your spouse Ivan Chew
Acts of Service is her top one. Mine is Words of Affirmation
Interestingly thing is, unfortunately the love language can also used to hurt by removing it from the interaction
Oh, active listening!
Paraphrasing back also helps with Active Listening
but not in a mock accent
trust me 😛
It’s Cindy and Anf when they’re older!
I check myself out all the time